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We have many interests! If you don't see yours listed here, feel free to reach out and ask as this list here is hardly exhaustive:

  • Bondage

  • Flogging/Spanking/Cropping

  • Slave Training

  • Domestic Servant/Maid/Houseboy Training

  • Orgasm Control

  • Tease and Denial

  • CFNM (Clothed Female/naked male)

  • Humiliation

  • Foot/shoe/leg worship (including stinky feet!)

  • CBT

  • Ballbusting

  • Chastity Training/Key Holder Services

  • NT (nipple 'torture')

  • Slut Training

  • Stretching Training of all sorts : ) 

  • Strap-on Sucking Training

  • 'Forced' Experiences

  • Infantilism

  • Play Piercing

  • Sissification/Girlfriend/Make-Up Services

  • 'Forced' Femme

  • Wax Play

  • Food Play

  • Smoking Fetish

  • Objectification

  • Sounding

  • Trampling

  • Corporal Punishment (Caning, etc.)

  • Chronic Masturbation Training

  • Spitting

  • Face Slapping

  • Golden Training

  • Sensory Deprivation

  • Financial Domination/Blackmail (Consensual ONLY!!)

  • Ask if you don't see your interest here!

I am Mistress Scarlot, Headmistress of a house of D/s bdsm exploration called The Control Room, in the northern suburbs of Philadelphia. I have been a professional dominatrix for 12 years, and was in the lifestyle before that (and still am). 

I am beautiful, intelligent, and very intuitive. I have entranced many men not just with My beauty, but also My energy and infectious laughter. As a past high priestess, I have brought My understanding of energy working to training boys and have become adept at co-crafting the elusive space called 'subspace'. My experience as a high priestess, along with My experience in My younger years training as a concubine to a man from a different culture for 8+, have given Me a unique understanding of both the world of D/s, interests and fetishes, sensuality and sexuality, pleasure and pain.

I enjoy exploring boys on all levels. I am kind, but strict. I consciously surf the line between mercy and severity, a line that is different in every single boy I see. Unless you are a very intense masochist, I tend to fall on the side of mercy. There is strength in compassion; it's not the severity that most boys enjoy, but how a Mistress wields it.

I am no little girl, but a grown Woman. I am very aware of My inherent sensuality and the control it gives Me over men. I embrace that power, instead of hiding from it or pretending it doesn't exist, the way many other less-aware Women do. I am a self-subscribed girly girl with a bit of edgy, classy-yet-hot rock and roll sensibility thrown in for good measure. My every-day dress preference is above-the-knee skirts,high heels or boots, fishnet thigh-highs or thigh high pantyhose, and smokin' hot make-up. I dress for sessions in the /same/ way I dress for life: sexy…and in My own, authentic style. ::smile:: I don't dress for you boys, I dress for ME, because true and raw sexiness comes from the inside out, and not the other way around. Beauty can be art! Sometimes, I do enjoy fetish garb as well.

Some adjectives that describe Me: sensual, demanding, selfish, selfless, fiendish, open-minded, independent, kinky, self-aware, confident, beautiful, incredibly intuitive, perpetually perverted, complex, resourceful, free-spirited, princess-y, creative, infinitely curious, grounded, fiery, spiritual, adventurous and intelligent. I'm direct, yet quite personable…and while I take sessions seriously, I also love a good sense of humor. I am a triple Sagittarian, for those who follow such things. I'm an animal lover and a musician.

I plan on doing this until I'm too old to do it anymore. ha ha ha And then, someone better be wheeling Me in to watch sessions or I'll be perverting the whole damned retirement home. ; ) (And don't think I won't!) One of the reasons I've lasted so long in this 'business' is not just because I'm good at what I do and I love what I do, but because I only see truly nice, sincere boys with compatible interests...which never burns Me out! They say if you love what you do, you'll never work a day in your life. Well, I can't say that all the prep and cleanup are fun...I guess that's why they call it 'work'. But sessions? Yes, please. I feel fulfilled by doing what I do. 

Additionally, I offer bdsm/sex coaching for singles, couples, and poly configurations. If you're a fledgling Domme looking for guidance, I can help. if you're looking to more fully accept your submissive interests before diving into a session, I can help. If you are a couple who wants to spice up your sex life with some bdsm, D/s, or need help bringing the dynamic more fully into your life, I can help. I am a visionary and an accomplished musician, and a glass mosaic artist, in addition to training boys and offering coaching/mentoring services.